Ah, I understand better now, thank you! Hopefully the parenting plan doesn't go to trial but it sounds like you are handling it well regardless. Some of you have a far deeper well of patience and resolve than I did, LOL! I am so thankful our D didn't go to trial because the stress was nearly unbearable as it was.
Quote:
The mediator told XW that D doesn't get to pick, and will be a teenager before she gets to express preference.
That sounds like what I would have thought, so basically your XW is just wasting her time with all that ridiculous coaching of your D. Maybe that'll get better after the parenting plan is resolved.
Quote:
Having things in writing doesn't seem to make things better.
If your XW is just set on being a B**ch then yeah, there's not a lot you can do other than maintain your zen-like state while she acts the fool.