Hunny, I knew mine was depressed and wallowing along time. He eventually said he never loved me and he only settled in marrying me. Our 26 th anniversary is next week. He refuses to discuss the divorce he has claimed in the past to want. You have to accept that this nothing to do with you and his words are garbage. Don’t give this lost soul any headspace. Show him true and unconditional love by leaving him to his crisis.