Thanks guys! Yes I also lost 30 lbs on the divorce diet! Most effective diet ever! I wouldn't recommend it to anyone....

This is definitely a marathon if a race at all. My H is resolute it seems although from what my son says, miserable. Crashed from his euphoric (and callous) high from August and September.

Great advice I got in the beginning was to just breathe and do one kind thing for myself every single day.

DB August 6, 2017 after 3 month separation
Me: 54
H: 58
Two Teenage sons
Living Separately from H
Married 19 years, together 22 years
Not sure if this is an MLC or WAS