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I am meeting with a coach tomorrow...I will update tomorrow night. 3 separate coaches from the DB program and from another one have advised me not to tell my family.


So, the recommendation is to act as if nothing is wrong and continue the charade? What does the coach think will finally end the affair that has continued for 5 years? Is this the route you want to take?

Frankly, I do not understand your sister and why she continues inviting your W to other occasions. Has your sister told you why?

What are the ages of your children?


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!