I'm going to agree with Caz here. You are removing all pressure on your H and allowing him to see you move on. If anything it will provide some food for thought to your H. He will realize you are taking control of your life and doing whatever necessary to thrive.
M 10yrs T 13yrs BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce April '17-Letting go 2018 D busted DD8, DS6, DS3