MLC or WAS... either way, I'm here - Part II

[Pax_luv]

"Clearly, this is all new to me, but I realize how much I need to be an advocate for myself. In the past, my personality has been if someone is an authority on a subject, I try to trust their judgment. I realize if I'm not comfortable, I need to open my mouth and at least voice my opinion. "

Truer words have never been spoken, LAJar. Good for you for recognizing this and empowering hourself. It's so hard, but it's the best thing you can do for yourself.

I can attest to the importance of this, 100%. My ex was a finance guy so I trusted him with our finances... Why wouldn't I? He controlled it all. That was one of his roles in the marriage. Big mistake on my end!!! I thought he was looking after us. Turns out, he was only looking after himself the entire time.

Now that we are no longer a team, I had to empower myself and ensure that this gets remedied (as much as possible). He can get mad all he wants... He doesn't get the final say in what's fair and he's having a fit about it.

I guess what I'm trying to say is... Maintaining the strength to power through this might be hard because it's a difficult road, but I know you can do it!