She's in no condition to do it. I still want what's best for our family, and if it's going to continue the way it is right now, with her wanting out constantly, it's going to affect the kids. And I want to get on with working with the kids as my own parent if she's not going to work on the M. So, yah. Plus, actually finally being apart might help.

Apartment acquired, btw. A studio about 10 minutes from our house. We will begin splitting time between the apartment and the house in January.


Me: Mid 40s W : Early 40s
M:11 T:13
S, D, both 7-10
BD : 11/2017
Separation : 1/18