However, if she wants to D, I don't plan on initiating the paperwork. I want her to. Does that make the above statement toothless?
Any thoughts on the above plan?
FastCars,
Your wife has been f*cking around for five years. It's highly unlikely that any conversation with her is going to change things. The only real option you have is to get out and GAL and move on with your life. Take action; write down a list of things you'd really like to do and go do them.