You sound like you are doing quite well ,considering Im glad you feel empowered..that must mean you are taking care of you
The D is a business deal..no niceness..business the LBS has to make sure they get what they want, need and deserve or the MLC and OW will try to take more
Im glad you will be with your sister and friends for the holidays..enjoy
Best not to think about H and OW..we never know what it is really like at their camp for now it may seem fun and wonderful for them but that quickly fades
you are doing the real work and well he is doing nothing and going in the opposite direction from the thing he wants the most..happiness and peace watch and see all the best
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow