Hi Jim I think faith definitely adds to the internal conflict. At my DD's first confession a few weeks back my W spent an inordinate amount of time at the candle section (very unlike her). The problem in possibly both our cases is when the W deeply internalises everything after a period of time (and I'm past the 1 year mark) that may also coincide with taking an A further underground so as to avoid detection (not saying that's happening with your sitch, mind!). My W probably rumbled I had checked (once) when I suspected our multiple MC sessions had counted for nothing (thus sending her into deep cover) but I would personally say to you to keep the sessions going at the very least for the little snippets of information that do slip out. Did your MC go into family histories as that can give a great insight into the "why" (not that that helps with the "now" of course).
Me 55, W 50 D 8 M 20 T 27 MIL w/ us BD 01/02/17 workplace A (12/09/16, EA -> PA) OM senior manager, long term W, child 14 now: limbo (my choice)
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