Divorce and Acceptance- Part 2

[Sotto]

Hi Pax, I'm glad to read this update - it sounds like you are in a pretty good place all things considered - so go you!!

Funny, your comment about 'it's his to own' - I think I may have mentioned that one a number of times. I can't really take any credit for that as I'm sure I've picked it up from another, wiser poster along the way.

I'm sorry that the D process continues to be difficult. It's well worth maintaining a strong sense of what is worth fighting for and what to back away from. For me it was the formula - We take total assets, you leave with what you brought in, so do I and we split the rest 50/50. Quite how we got to the formula, I didn't care - but that's what we ended up with. Every circumstance is different, but it's best to maintain that helicopter view as much as you can & I'm sure you do.

Otherwise - relax and enjoy the festive season! Xxx