It doesn't sound too suspicious that your wife came today if she was just returning from overseas and missed the kids. Hopefully any other time she'll call first though.
I still haven't read each and everyone of your first threads but your wife sounds like an atypical case. She didn't have an affair, right? It's strange that she wants to be alone at this stage when the kids are still in the process of graduating and moving out. Why not wait a few years? Have you figured out a root cause or it's just a combination of everything that went downhill?
Your thread seems to touch on so many of the legal and financial issues that arise when a couple divorces. Has your divorce actually gone through? I'm sorry if I missed that as well, but I guess you're further along in the process than some of us.
Do you ever still wish to reconcile with your wife?
