HaWho,

Thank you as always. I of course have done the very thing you said I shouldn’t do. She knows I’m pro M and believe D is wrong. She used to believe the same! And now she sincerely asks why I can’t live in an open M? At BD, I even said I’ll always be here for you. So not DB.

Well, she now knows I will D her and that I won’t keep living in this unwanted open M. One thing that you make me think about: when I object to her actions, she does act more like a child who is being scolded. I don’t get it and it does throw me off my game because I have no idea how to respond to someone acting like that.


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving