I too am a fixer. I respond to her calls for help with the children always and her, sometimes. I haven’t gotten to the place where I always say no. I wish I could say: ask your BF!
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving