•XW married •XW expecting baby in a few months •XW ramping up aggression in emails, texts, in person co-parenting •XW continues to get out in front of me in S7 therapy appointments with lies and slander
S4/7 are now with me during the week for school and go visit their mom on the weekends, so at least their schedule is better.
Recent issues •called her lawyer regarding her "legal rights" to FaceTime the kids everyday (it's not a right) •used her lawyer in an attempt to block my summer vacation for the third summer in a row (used a unintended technicality in the agreement) •refuses to allow S4 to attend AM preschool, insisting on PM (again, they are with me all week) •doesn't let S4 come to my home on Monday mornings before school anymore. Keeps him at her house and has her husband drive him (after she's already driven S7 to my house a few hours earlier that morning)
The boys continue to demonstrate worrisome behavior. Just today, S7 teacher emailed that he was pushing desks and chairs because he ate all of his snack. Ran to a closet and hid under clothes. It's breaking my heart. S4 is very aggressive in school and his teacher pulled me aside to discuss yesterday. Their patterns seem to line up with her ramped up aggression towards me.
I have no idea what to do. Nobody will listen to me, I'm just "the dad." I've been accused of crazy stuff in S7 therapy appointments. I am completely lost.
As of December 2023 Me: 45 XW: 43 S13 S10 ILYBINILWY: 11/14/2014 OM: 11/14/2014 D process: 12/14/2014 D final: 04/2015