I received the letter from the court yesterday with the date of our D hearing, January 10th, 2017. Little sadness while reading the letter, knowing what it means, but overall not much of an emotional swing. I imagine the actual hearing will be tough, but I've decided to make it a quick overnight trip, and will fly in the night before, and leave at night after the hearing.
I struggled with whether or not to spend a couple of days with family afterwards, but decided I'd rather be alone. Hopefully that is a good decision, but just have to wait and see.
Also got a text from STBXW yesterday asking me if I want to take our dog, we had 2 but one passed away earlier this year and apparently the one is too much for her and son to care for.. So I'm headed down to FL tomorrow to spend a week with family and will likely be heading back with the best dog ever pretty happy about that.
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized