Hoosjim's 9th: WW, A ended(?); "All-in" or not?

[Coconut]

I'm gonna bring all this up at MC tomortow. And the "all in" and we're working towards sex or we're not working at all bit.

It's just too hard.

Jim,

This is you trying to fix it yourself, and doesn't get you anywhere. unless she says "NO, I'm done", you will still be in the same place. You cannot do anything to get her where you want her to be, she needs to do it.

Your spinning, I would recommend you take some time to level out again, then decide on what you want and how you want to proceed. Making decisions or moves while your spinning is generally not a good idea.