You looked at it in a different context. I mean, how would feel about the R between the two of you. You are so worried about OM or any OM and that is not the biggest problem here at all, actually. It's a symptom of a problem. The problem is a lot bigger than any OM right now. It's within her and desires for a responsibility free life where she gets to do what she wants without repercussion and guilt. She didn't just go wayward because she was attracted to this guy and not you.
