Art just made a great point. You turn him in, you let him off. You file for D, he has to step up. Once D is files your W, will have to face reality. She can't sit back and wait on his lies anymore.
You have done your research. The only way to live in base housing is if you are married or have dependants.
The other thing I want you to think about is if he really wanted your W to come and has so much control, why hasn't he convinced her to go forward with D.
Don't turn him in. You can break this fantasy she's living in, just by pulling yourself out of the Sitch. Dropping those papers. She has proven and she says she can't afford to be on her own.
In the wise words of Kevin Hart, "He's not ready", nor is she.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
