Recently however, I met someone that I am super into (from Tinder of all places!) We have been talking for over a month, and have had five dates so far. We are taking it sort of slow, but it seems to be really worth the patience (We finally ended a date other than the parking lot last night). She is basically everything that I feel I need.
The thing I have noticed, post D, is that I am much more able to identify my needs and evaluate if someone is able to provide me with what I need. IC has really been a big boon for this. Hence the rapid pace of some of these relationships.
Well, apparently I can't read a situation. (although everyone I have talked to has pointed out that I did nothing wrong)
After seven dates I get:
I have so much fun with you and you are such an amazing person, but I do not feel the chemistry.
Um...When you take it suuuuper slow, I feel like chemistry starts to fall? Maybe I am wrong. Maybe it is how you define chemistry. But if you don't really want to be physical with someone, don't bombard them with innuendo and tease them about it.
Well, there is xW shadow, following me around again, taunting me.
I so hate this crap.
Back to the drawing board. Or a dark room.
Married 9: Together 11 M:37 W:35 S:2 D:7 Bomb dropped 6/3/2017 W moved out 7/1/2017 Separation Filed: 8/1/2017 Modified to Divorce: 8/21/2017 Divorced: 10/5/2017
