Thank you for all the responses, currently my W intiates conversations with me since I have really stepped up DB. She even asked me if I needed anything from the store and bought me some shirts. Temp checking maybe? I am going to be my happy pleasant self throught this process.
Sandi, I have read all Cadet's HW and pretty much read every current sitch on this board. I fully realize what needs to be done but as many LBH putting to practice what is suggested is very difficult. I am there though and yes I see a change in her, but I also am aware not to believe this means anything.
I will also state that I firmly believe she either is having an EA, PA, or FA. I am not naive enough to believe she would just do this without there being someone else. I am also done snooping, I just do not want to do it.
M:52 W:49 D:26 S:24 S:23 D:20 ILYBNILWY 5/28/17 Still living together W filed 1/5/18 W moved out 8/24/18 D final 9/18/20