Fighting my way out of the dark - Part 7

[Holding]

Given the situation, I don't have any issue with you showing your outrage and condemnation of what she's doing. I'm not talking about having a tantrum and throwing things. I'm talking about decisively showing her that you won't put with her bullying an bullsh*t. Stand up for yourself and your children. The time for cool and calm has passed.

Can you give me an example of the kind of action you're talking about? Do I yell? Tell her to f*ck off? Calmly state that I'm not going to put up with her bullying and bullsh1t?

How do I start??? Refer back to the first responses you got when you posted "you story" Breath, eat, take care of yourself! Even though you may have had suspicions about the possibility of OM the confirmation that there is one puts you at a fork in the road. Continue down the same path you're on because you are doing great or let this completely derail you and let her see that this affected you. It's up to you, "Your future is out there. Go find it" your words not ours! It will get easier as they all say when you living separate, look forward to that day. Chin up, you'll be ok if you want to be.

Thanks, Dusty! I'm continuing on my same path (getting ready for a new life after D). I don't look forward to the legal struggle, but I can't wait until she's out of the house.