She's baiting me and I'd be a fool to take her bait. I'm going to be Mr. Cool and Calm in the face of her craziness.
Holding,
I know that "cool and calm" is the battle cry of the DB gang, but your wife has walked all over you and rubbed your nose in her excrement for a long time. Given the situation, I don't have any issue with you showing your outrage and condemnation of what she's doing. I'm not talking about having a tantrum and throwing things. I'm talking about decisively showing her that you won't put with her bullying an bullsh*t. Stand up for yourself and your children. The time for cool and calm has passed.
