Thanks LC, J9, and Artista.

Something I didn't mention in my last post - the stress of all this caused me to pop a blood vessel in my eye over the weekend.

Originally Posted By: lcause
And based on your posts your W will lose a lot... she just hasn't understood it yet.


What will she lose? Me?

Originally Posted By: Joseph9
I often wonder how I will feel the day I find out and confirm. I think it will bring me some closure.


I don't wish this knowledge on you. But yeah, closure is a good word for it. I feel like I can stop beating myself up over my mistakes, and second-guessing myself. I can see her cheap lies for what they are.

Originally Posted By: artista
so how is she wrong? it seems to me that you are wrong... you still allowed her to talk to you like that... she is mocking you... daring you to do anything about it... did you at least take away your bluetooth speaker?


She gave me the speaker back. Actually, I think she slammed it down (no big deal, it's rubber). What else can I do other than ignore her and walk away? She's baiting me and I'd be a fool to take her bait. I'm going to be Mr. Cool and Calm in the face of her craziness.


Me-47,XW-43
S13,S16
M:18
BD:4-23-17
W filed:7-17-17
(5 months of in-house separation hell)
W moved out:1-6-18
D granted:2-15-18
Decree signed:3-29-18

Your future is out there. Go find it.