Yo yo! Good to see you drop by Benni and give us an update. More than seeing where you're with your W, it's even better to hear where you're at with yourself.
Things are status quo with my W. She's loosened up a bit but I am pretty much NC/Dark as you can with kids. As you mentioned, I have let go and am just doing my thing.
Didn't see that this year would end like this or that I'd be here, but it is where things are at.
I am more calmer and focused on my stuff. I got at least six more months before I make any concrete decisions about where to go.
Keep dropping in when you can. I liked reading about how you handled the event with your W being scatter brained. I got the same situation exactly and I hope to navigate it well if I ever get the chance. Post when you have stuff to share like that cuz it helps a lot in informing people how to be confident, calm, decisive, and loving.
