Hey B, nice to see you around. I too lurk here but I just don't have time to formulate my posts correctly for others so I tend to avoid posting completely.

Nice update and I tip my hat to you, sir. You have changed, properly. You are now amongst the few lucky ones who get to reconcile when it was their goal, and end up building a much better relationship. Life certainly has a lot in store for all of us but doing what you did will end up making us happier regardless of the end result. I wish you all the best and Merry Christmas smile

Hopefully you still keep visiting, commenting and updating your situation, at least sometimes.


In my thirties, BDd 2017, divorced
2 young kids
new relationship