Drowning in his crisis

[Pax_luv]

Hi Hunny,
Been following allowing and lending you some virtual support. It really is tough but as Job mentioned it's best to leave him be and turn the attention inwards on yourself.

I'm not a physician, but it sounds like you have alopecia areata. Yep....same thing happened to me. Not at bomb drop, but right before. I hadn't realized all the stress I was under trying to deal with my own stuff and navigating ex's crazy MLC world.

I went to a dermatologist who explained that it's a myth that this condition occurs due to regular stress, however, it can happen when you go through something traumatic (i.e. A HUGE stressor on the body). He said its your bodies autoimmune response to that traumatic event and it's just trying to protect itself. He's seen it occur in folks who have just had a bad car accident, etc. he advised me that it could never happen again or it may come back. Fortunately for me my hair grew back and I've not had any more bouts with it since I moved out.

If you have the means you may want to go get it checked out just to be sure.

I'm sorry you are going through this. I don't wish this experience on my worst enemy.