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Why your still have relationship talks is beyond me. Your worried about making worse and you’re definitely making it worse.

Right now your focus should be on you and your kids.

Don’t worry about not getting 50/50 custody. She will want to spend as much time with OM without the kids.

The brutally honest truth is you can’t fix this in the next month. Try to accept it and move forward confidently and productively.

I promise you it does get better!