I've followed your story all the way through. You are one of the bravest and most resilient woman I've seen on here. Thank you for writing about your experiences. It helps to read about a woman whose H didn't or couldn't express remorse but turned it around through their own understanding of their situation and H. You seem to have grasped what makes your H tick. How to bring out his best even when you were feeling totally betrayed. I thought I had learnt this, but no, I have a lot more introspection left to do.
You seem to have come to a moment of understanding about your situation and life. I thought I had but now I see I've more journey to travel physically and emotionally.
Good luck with your surgery, I wish you the very best care and attention.
Me 50 H 48 S 23 S 21 D 19 Together 31 years Married 25 years Separated April 2009 Reconciled 2010 Separated September 2017
