Awkward Situation Got Much Worse (part 4 )

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I do want to clarify that I know the results I want, but am unsure of how to get there.

The result at this point is I want my wife to be excluded from my family events, my sister to stop inviting my wife to her events, and, as a last resort, my wife to move out.

The only way to exclude my W that I can see is to let everyone in my family know whats going on.

My sister invited my wife to go ice skating with her family the day after Christmas as we have done every year...what can I do about that? ...again, I cannot stop my wife from going. I can not attend, but my W will not care, and it willl just cause me to lose time with my kids.

I can ask my wife to move out, but I know she will refuse...then what? ...The only option I can see is to divorce her or for me to move out...I do not want to move out over her.

I have found that through all if this, I have greatly strengthened my relationships with my kids. I have even gotten to the point where I prefer my time with the kids without my W around...any time she is around, she disagrees with everything I say to the kids. Just today, I was wrapping presents with the kids. I asked my daughter to put tge supplies in one room. My W interrupted and told my daughter to set up in another room. I couldnt help myself from calling my W out on it...to which she called me "tacky" across the house.