I do have zero expectations. I’m just tired of all the churn. Have one month left... other option is LRT.
Not sure how this reinforces that A is ok? Because I didn’t kick her out of house immediately??? Or because I am considering being kind to her? I’m open to opinions, just know what has worked in the past that’s improved things vs what appeared to make them worse... but I’m open. Only 2 days into this approach right now so could take another one... as long as I understand why it’s likely to be more effective knowing full well that I can’t change nor stop what’s coming. And as long as I understand how we are likely to respond to this approach.
She asked me tonight if we can stop the drama, just accept things and move on as she’s tired of all the R A M talks.
She also is upset that I don’t have my script ready for her approval etc with kids. I think I’m going to go with hers for her parents and do mine alter it to just stick to surface level facts for now. Not sure what good A coming out to family now does and I my has potential to make things ALOT worse during mediation etc.
But I’m open to other opinions on this.
Me 47 STBXW 44 M ~20 D13 S15 BD mid 17 A Disc. 2 months after BD but evidence found ~2yr OM decade older S Imminent D Soon after
