The best way is to detach. Let go and let your wife go on her Journey.
You cant control anothe person. The faster you realize that, the faster the healing begins. You need space! Detach helps you gain that space and she the R and M from a distance and for what it really is.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.