She came to me for emotional support and I talked to her and told her there it's not my responsibility anymore. It could be if she wanted it to be, but that's not the way it is anymore.
This is too hard for me. I can't keep doing this. She is never going to want me again if I am here and available, yet she's unstable if I'm here but unavailable.
Her staying out all night is being enabled by me watching her boy. I can't be giving her her cake and letting her eat it too.
I'm trying so hard to apply Sandi's rules. I'm GAL. I'm doing well at work. I'm focused on my kid. I've changed old habits.
I really need to know what my best options are. Watching her go off and have a grand time with whoever until 2am is killing my heart. I'm being destroyed inside.
Save yourself. Nobody is coming! BD:11/2017 Filed:12/2017 Final: 2/2018