I've just been on the phone to my sister...at 1 in the morning! Luckily she was awake. I don't know how I feel. Sad but not in tears. Numb. Almost vindicated in a way. That I was probably right to separate from him...I don't know this man. He's not a great dad and wasn't a good husband to me for so long.
My sister said at least I'm getting counselling and will be fixing myself...he'll still have the same problems and won't be able to communicate with OW.
She said the same as you, don't enter into any dialogue with him. Ignore him. He won't answer my text and I will take that as confirmation.
I deserve to be treated better than this. He can live how he pleases. But I will not be wasting another year waiting for him.
Me 50 H 48 S 23 S 21 D 19 Together 31 years Married 25 years Separated April 2009 Reconciled 2010 Separated September 2017
