My idea to separate has been an epic fail

[Caz49]

So it looks like my H has already moved on, possibly had already been seeing someone whilst we weren't separated but I can't prove that.

My son saw a text message with lots of heart emojis whilst they were at a football match.

I've sent a text asking if he's sleeping with anyone. Of course he's never been upfront in the past, theres little to say he will now.

Yes, it was my idea to separate because I had thought in my naive way he'd have some kind of awakening and realise what he was throwing away. That he was being unfair and needed to make compromises.

I'm a fool. I feel foolish and discarded and just plain done.