Talked to a new friend today who just happens to be a legal officer in the bay. He’s in the same boat as all of us here, no pun intended. Anyway, I related my ditch and he interrupted and said that things didn’t jive regarding OM. He said the timelines for his service were off, his retirement date was wrong, and he basically said he was lying about a lot of things relating to him. This has me concerned that he went to these lengths to lie to my w what else is he hiding? She is convinced he is working second shift for the last month, when his position doesn’t have a second shift. She is planning on divorcing me and moving to live with this man, possibly with my kids depending on court when it comes to that. She only knows what he has told her on the phone, and what she saw for 7 days. I’m now more concerned about safety than the A. What does anyone else think? Should I bring this up to her?or let it be. I hate what she’s doing but I don’t want anything to happen to her


M 51 W 46
D14 S13
M 16yrs
T17yrs
BD 06/25/17
OM Confirmed 06/25/17, ILYBNILWY
Did Sep for 1 month, moved back in due to W Finances