Also, she sounds delusional about parents and family members. My H was the same way. Said I was still "invited" to family events. Seriously? Was I going to sit there with him and a girlfriend? He even "invited" me to an annual family event that I have thrown for the past 18 years. For some reason, my H seemed to think that nothing was really going to change for him except that he was now going to be able to date and not pay for family expenses. It is a weird delusion.
Unreal... In my Sitch she wants me to go by myself with kids to her P for one holiday she doesn't care about and then she gets them for another one she does care about (where I wouldn't go)... So we would never be there at the same time)...
She also wants to tell her P and K that little will change for them they will still get to go back for all holidays, get togethers etc. (I think this is a lie because we don't know what will happen down the road so we shouldn't say this...
Me 47 STBXW 44 M ~20 D13 S15 BD mid 17 A Disc. 2 months after BD but evidence found ~2yr OM decade older S Imminent D Soon after