What I mean by control of my situation (or those of us trying to RC our M) is the outcome of our R, WW and I. I'm learning that I can't do anything to influence her decisions regarding the A so am better able to let it go.
Since my last posts I feel mentally I'm in a better place and can work on my situation with less pressure to try and "win" her back! She needs to come back on her own accord or I face a possible second D-Day, this has helped me see my situation differently in a new light if you will!
It's all about the boys and me now and if she chooses to join us well I'll cross that bridge when I come to it.
Great, that all sound spot-on! Glad to hear you are doing well and on the right path
