I doubt very much she would abandon the kids. I mean, who knows what will happen in the future, but right now she is an excellent mom, and I can't ever see that changing. Of course, I didn't see the D coming, even though I knew there was trouble. So yah.

I am trying to be friendly, work on my 180s, GAL, and give her space. Living together still makes that hard. She says she wants to talk this weekend about the D, so when do we move out will likely come up soon.

This morning she said she booked the trip for the whole week so I won't have to look at her, so I think she was a little hurt about text where I said we could use some space apart.


Me: Mid 40s W : Early 40s
M:11 T:13
S, D, both 7-10
BD : 11/2017
Separation : 1/18