Dusty, I like where you are at emotionally. I'm hoping to get there.
My STBX has me in limbo currently. I think he very much wants to move forward and there is nothing I can do about it. He did send me an incoherent email a couple of weeks ago that sounded like he was not happy about how he was living, but he does seem to want to be away from me. He is missing our boys a lot. I am glad of that. But again, actions speak louder than words. He says he misses the boys so much, but there have been numerous times when he could have been with them and chose not too. I am wondering if I should move ahead with D as I need to plan my future. I really am taking one day at a time at this point. All I can handle.
DB August 6, 2017 after 3 month separation Me: 54 H: 58 Two Teenage sons Living Separately from H Married 19 years, together 22 years Not sure if this is an MLC or WAS