When I was going through w/the divorce that my xh wanted, my lawyer advised me that anything that was gifted to him, was his to keep and anything that was gifted to me was mine to keep. If I were you, I'd be seeking some advice from another lawyer as each state may have different laws concerning such things.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
