I think its important to remember that many of us that post to you are posting with baggage of all sorts. Some posters ex's were involved in affairs. Mine had secret drug and alcohol addictions.

By following the wrong advise, you can make things a lot worse. So take what is said with a grain of salt.
Go to a concert with someone else??? I guatantee that will only justify your wife lewing even quicker!!!

Personally, i think the concert idea sounds great. I think LRT is for when your spouse is going out with other men and has abandoned the kids. Not as a way to punish or make jealous when she is feeling hooeless about reconciliation


M: 42
H: 43
Twins age 5
WAH in summer