Im not sure what the answer is

perhaps you can ask own it..she is a L and may have an idea

Is it possible to get another legal opinion?
b4 you do anything

I think if a gift was written in his name..legally he may be eligible for that but Im not a L

I know my L was very by the book with issues such as that-

hang in there
I know how stressful the D is...
when mine was over , I was so relieved and it was then I really started to move on

married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow