Newbie trying to gain control

[Gordie]

I have gotten so much help here so glad to give back in some way. You know what takes a lot of confidence? Knowing that you’re life isn’t over because of your situation. Knowing that you have value in and of yourself. Knowing that you can be a kick a dad, even if you wind up being a single parent. Brag to yourself. Brag to us! What makes you great? You seem like a humble guy, but tell us what makes you...awesome? Okay, if it’s too embarsssing to write here write it down for yourself.

Cali told me to be a list maker. Here’s an idea. Write the 10 things you most admire in other men. Rate yourself against that list. Pat yourself on the back for where you rank highly. Work on the things you rank lowly. Re rate yourself on once a month or once a quarter. Celebrate your successes. Become the person you want to be.