I agree w/sjohns6...if he wants a divorce, then let him do the heavy lifting on things. As for being petty, no, I don't think so at all.

Praying that all goes well for you.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.