Adjusting to being a LBS....

[Subitai]

It will be good for you.

I remember soon after BD1, my W was on a business trip and she would call and talk and talk. At home she filled her time with activities and go out such that she didn't have time to think. On the business trip she had no distractions from her inner turmoil.

When she's away, don't you initiate contact. And if she calls, you break off the conversation before she does.

I'm actually looking forward to it a little bit. The last month and change has been extremely wearing on me.