Another thing that I forgot to mention is that she has just started IC. She has only been to 1 session and I didn't pry about it. I know she went and she knows I know she went. I figure that if she wanted to talk about it she would.

It came about roughly a month ago. I can't remember what sparked the conversation, but I had had enough that day and was ready to walk. I believe it was something she said to me. At that point she scrambled and said do you think maybe we should try marriage counseling again before giving up. I told her that I didn't think MC would do much good at this point, but would she be up to seeing an IC instead. She seemed very receptive to that. On her own she sought one out (referral from the marriage counselor we had been seeing) and scheduled an appointment. That was 2 weeks ago. I believe her 2nd appointment is tonight. She hasn't mentioned to me that it is tonight, but I'm pretty sure it is. So...that's also a good thing, right? Man...I really need to work on zero expectations.


Me: 45 yrs
W: 43 yrs
Together: 20 yrs
Married: 15 yrs
Son: 19 yrs
Daughter: 18 yrs
BD: Jan 2017