I just wanted to take a moment to reflect on my sitch. On the 11th, it was officially 1 year from OM W telling him that she knew about his A with my W due to me telling her a few days prior. OM naturally called me up threatening to harm me as I remained calm the whole time telling him that be did this to himself. It was also the first time, he kicked W to the curb to save his own MR. I recall my W blaming me and saying she wasn't responsible if we had killed each other over her actions.
It was at that moment where I started to detach without realizing it. Loyalty is huge for me and the fact that my W admitted to her best friend that she still wanted to sleep with him after that confrontation showed me and her best friend that she wasn't worth dealing with. But yet I kept trying to dave this MR. At this point, I still try to apply DB methods, but all I want is to just move on from my W. There is nothing that I find remotely respectable about her. I guess what I am trying to say is that my W continued trifiling behavior helped greatly with detaching.
The only sad part is that there probably could have been somewhat of a friendship at some point in the future. But my W burned that bridge to the ground with the continued behavior. My neighbor who is divorced trying to explain that threat comparison to a WW is like two crash dummies. As long as I am still attached to her in some way. Her crashing and going through the windshield will likely result in the same happening to me. Which is why me getting this divorce was so necessary.
Because my W bankruptcy is definitely effecting me and all she does is shrug it all off like it is no big deal. And she is too damn stubborn to realize that the money Unspent on my lawyer tobfix this is taking away from S14.
