Speaking of gifts,,, last night H said to me "so I guess we won't buy each other anything for Christmas this year?" I completely agreed and had no plans to do so either. I was surprised he even brought it up. Why the heck did he?
Devvo - of course you are right about no guarantees for the future. I was thinking back on an article by heartsblessing that said "most" of the MLCers will try to come home toward the end of the Withdrawal Stage. But no guarantee the attempt will actually lead to reconciliation. I do get that it's dangerous thinking though and thanks for the 2 x 4.
