I love receiving random gifts. My stbx never gave them. I learned to live without. I was okay with it.
Then I found out stbx loved giving random gifts to OM1. It drove me crazy! I was so angry that I once demanded she buy me a gift for no reason and she did. But the fact that I demanded it of course ruined any pleasure. Sigh. I quickly lost that gift.
Well, I learned the hard way to just look away...and that has made all the difference.
Peace,
Gordie
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving